feat: Update aria hideoutside to work with shadow doms

[snowystinger]

Closes #6133
Replaces #6160 and the changes that are in #9369

Tests mostly taken from #6160

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

Unit tests should cover it. The code path only activates if someone has the shadowdom flag turned on.

🧢 Your Project:

[snowystinger]

without this, typescript fails in node_modules/@jest/schemas/node_modules/@sinclair/typebox/typebox.d.ts which is very annoying because it cannot easily be patched

And the error isn't actually an error, it's Excessive stack depth comparing types

it's json schema types, so not very worried about it

[rspbot]

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