feat: stale channel monitors recovery

[ovitrif]

Fixes: #847

This PR adds automatic recovery when the LDK node encounters stale channel monitors during startup, and bumps ldk-node to rc.34 which includes the upstream healing logic.

see also:

• feat: accept stale channel monitors for recovery ldk-node#76

Description

When a channel monitor falls behind the channel manager (e.g. due to faulty overwrite during an unfiltered migration from LDK to ldk-node), ldk-node refuses to start with a DangerousValue error to protect funds. This PR catches that error and retries the build with accept_stale_channel_monitors enabled, allowing ldk-node to accept the stale monitor and self-heal via commitment round-trips with the channel peer.

Unlike the approach in #854, this version always retries on DangerousValue result during ldk-node setup.

Also adds a 10s connection timeout to the node config, as required by ldk-node rc.33.

Preview

Screenshot of app after recovery.

QA Notes

1. Normal startup (unaffected users)

1. Install the build on a device with an existing wallet
2. Launch the app
3. Verify the node starts normally with no warnings in logs
4. Verify all balances and channels appear correctly

2. Stale monitor recovery

1. Reproduce the stale monitor state (overwrite a channel monitor in VSS with an older update_id)
2. Launch the app — first build fails with DangerousValue
3. Verify the automatic retry succeeds and the node starts
4. Check logs for "Build failed with DangerousValue. Retrying with accept_stale_channel_monitors"
5. Verify "Stale monitor recovery: all monitors healed" appears in logs within ~15s
6. Kill and relaunch — verify normal startup (no retry needed since monitors are now healed)

3. Connection timeout (optional)

1. Verify the node respects the 10s connection timeout (observable in poor network conditions)

🤖 Generated with Claude Code

[piotr-iohk]

Tested:

• restore broken 2.1.0 wallet into 2.1.2 ✅
• update 2.1.0 with broken wallet to 2.1.2 ✅
• update from 2.0.3 (wallet with gap) to 2.1.2 ✅
• update 2.1.0 with healthy wallet to 2.1.2 (regression check)✅
• 2.1.0 with broken wallet (advanced 150 blocks) -> update to 2.1.2 ✅

Each time wallet is operational, channel opened. Ln payments sent and received with success.

[piotr-iohk]

Tested. LGTM 👌

[jvsena42]

Agree with all Claude suggestions

[piotr-iohk]

Tested again:

• restore broken 2.1.0 wallet into 2.1.2 ✅
• update 2.1.0 with broken wallet to 2.1.2 ✅
• update from 2.0.3 (wallet with gap) to 2.1.2 ✅
• update from 2.0.3 (wallet with gap) -> 2.1.1 -> 2.1.2 ✅
• update 2.1.0 with healthy wallet to 2.1.2 (regression check) ✅
• 2.1.0 with broken wallet (advanced 600 blocks) -> update to 2.1.2 ✅

Each time wallet is operational. Ln payments sent and received with success.

[ovitrif]

⚠️ PR must be updated to depend on ldk-node rc.36