StreamMessageListenerContainer should wait for cancellation to complete on shutdown

[JiHongKim98]

Fix issue: #2261

Referring to pull request #2563 , modified the logic to use CountDownLatch to wait for completion on cancel without busy-spin.

If there are any improvements or suggestions, please feel free to let me know.
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[JiHongKim98]

@mp911de Would you mind sharing your thoughts on this PR when you have a chance? 🙏🏻