Don't mark node down when control connection fails to connect

[dkropachev]

Node pools should be stable, if cc fails to connect it is not good enough reason to neither to kill it nor to mark node down.
Doing that opens up cases when control connection marks nodes down and kills pools due to the short leaved network glitch.

Fixes: #622

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