Add Parquet writer option autodetection

[kosiew]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Closes # (tracking support for fine-grained Parquet writer configuration)

Rationale for this change

Allow DataFrame.write_parquet to accept either compression arguments or a ParquetWriterOptions instance, simplifying the API.

What changes are included in this PR?

• Introduced ParquetWriterOptions and ParquetColumnOptions dataclasses
• Added write_parquet_with_options method and autodetection logic in write_parquet
• Exported the new classes from the package
• Added unit tests for the new behaviour

Are these changes tested?

Yes, new tests added under tests/test_dataframe.py.

Are there any user-facing changes?

write_parquet now accepts a ParquetWriterOptions instance as the second argument.

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