Fix error handling for exceptions on values parsing.

[APshenkin]

Fixes #3573

• Fix: Avoid connection leaks by ensuring parse closure on error.
• Refactor: Move Writer instantiation to improve isolation and prevent state reuse issues.

[charmander]

Please add tests if possible. (Ideally, point out the minimal fix for each bug and which changes are just cleanup, e.g. by separating into 2–3 commits, but the tests will help make that more clear anyway.)

[APshenkin]

@charmander

I would really appreciate to get a feedback first, that those changes are in right direction. Those two changes are tight together as they both are related to serialization issue. Just because I solved global writer issue first, zombie client appeared next in PgPool, because without fixing writers you just write sync/close in next query

I'm not an expert of pg protocol and just investigated this issue few hours.
Maybe there were a reasons to use shared writers? If not and those changes makes sence, would be happy to do what you request

[charmander]

Yes, these changes make sense. The shared writer was probably an attempt at improving performance.

[brianc]

• Refactor: Move Writer instantiation to improve isolation and prevent state reuse issues.

If this is something which can be acomplished without reinstantiating the writer I would greatly prefer it. This is extremely hot path code. Is there a way to fix this w/o? Also: needs tests before merging.

Thanks for the eyes on this tho! I'll leave it open for a bit as it might be something I can quickly fix (IF there is a repoducable test case on how to trigger the issue)