patterns: clean up TODOs, move is_include_cmd to IECommand property, fixes #9442

[mr-raj12]

Description

Address the TODO items in src/borg/patterns.py as discussed in #9442:

1. recurse_dir_default: Replaced the misleading TODO with a comment explaining why it must stay True as include patterns inside excluded directories (+ inside -) depend on it.

2. is_include_cmd: Moved from a dict on PatternMatcher to an is_include property on IECommand and now the matcher calls cmd.is_include instead of doing a dict lookup.

3. RootPath validation: Added a warning when the root path doesn't start with /, so backups don't fail due to a typo.

4. command_recurses_dir: Replaced cmd not in [IECommand.ExcludeNoRecurse] with explicit if/raise branches using is comparisons. Now raises ValueError for unexpected commands like RootPath or PatternStyle.

Tests updated to use real IECommand values and cover the new code paths.

Checklist

• PR is against master
• New code has tests and docs where appropriate
• Tests pass
• Commit messages are clean and reference related issues

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❌ Patch coverage is 92.85714% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 83.41%. Comparing base (9d5687d) to head (0a1d559).
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✅ All tests successful. No failed tests found.

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