fix(excel-filtering): update variant mapping / use button type-style

[didimmova]

Closes #16677

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[sbayreva]

Indigo Light Mode & Dark Mode Small Size

1. In Small size the height of each filer action should be 24px and the gap between them should be 4px:

Indigo Dark Mode

1. Тhe background color of the whole filter should be grays 50, only the "List Area" should stay with surface dark color:

2. The color of the text of the "sorting" and "move" buttons should be white: