cicd: update linting, git hooks, etc

[jsstevenson]

Implement a few template-related updates

• Update GitHub Actions for a few utils
• Test in 3.11-3.13 instead of 3.10-3.12 (to match requires-python in pyproject.toml -- if this was on purpose then the other needs to be fixed)
• Update pre-commit hooks. Use prek, consolidate into one task in CI/CD, add some new hooks.
• Update Ruff, add some new Ruff rules.
• Fix versions being run in the install test action
• Fix license metadata
• Use uv for github actions