{2025.05}[SYSTEM] CUDA 12.6.0,12.8.0, cuDNN 9.5.0.50,9.10.1.4

[casparvl]

Many things still need to be done... The software-layer-scripts PR should make sure to

• Run CUDA 12.6-based builds with --module-only if they target CC100 or above
• Change the requested CUDA compute capabilities for cuDNN where-ever that is needed. E.g. cuDNN 9.5.0 comes, I think, only with 9.0 device code, not 9.0a. Thus, we should change the requested CC to 9.0 for that particular software name & version. For cuDNN 9.10.1.4, I think 9.0a is supported, but 10.0f is not and it should be changed to 10.0. I'd prefer to make those changes in hooks to avoid having to open multiple different software-layer PR, each with custom options for the build. Added advantage is that by doing it in the hooks, it also fixes things for EESSI-extend-based installations.

This PR should replace #1278 , #1286 and #1287