Use zmq-anyio #3148

Job	Run time
check_release	1m 46s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	5m 19s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.10)	14m 3s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	6m 14s
Test Lint	52s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	7m 10s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	7m 2s
link_check	3m 30s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 38s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 1s
Make SDist	19s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	7m 21s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	6m 56s
test_docs	35s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	7m 58s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	9m 31s
Test Minimum Versions	3m 39s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	6m 27s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.9)	8m 27s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.10)	9m 31s
Test Prereleases	2m 19s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	6m 7s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	5m 17s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	3m 5s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	5m 19s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	7m 25s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	6m 0s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.9)	5m 4s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.10)	5m 42s
Install from SDist and Test	3m 31s
coverage	1s
	2h 45m 9s

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