Use zmq-anyio #3094

Job	Run time
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	6m 12s
check_release	1m 36s
test_docs	37s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	9m 48s
Test Lint	59s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	8m 21s
Test Minimum Versions	3m 9s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	6m 49s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	2m 30s
link_check	3m 24s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	7m 20s
Make SDist	25s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	5m 45s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	6m 32s
Test Prereleases	2m 52s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	8m 50s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	7m 41s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 49s
coverage	0s
	1h 25m 39s

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