fix: include missing crates in publish workflow

[geserdugarov]

Which issue does this PR close?

• None.

What changes are included in this PR?

• Add iceberg-cache-moka and iceberg-catalog-loader to the publish workflow so all README-listed crates are released.
• Use dependency-aware publish ordering: core iceberg first, then storage, then crates that only depend on iceberg, then storage-backed catalog crates, and iceberg-catalog-loader last because it depends on catalog crates.
• Add missing crates.io metadata for iceberg-cache-moka.
• Align README component order with the publish order. This change is not necessary, but the publish matrix order is explicitly meaningful, and the README is the component table users see when comparing crate release status.

Are these changes tested?

The actual publish workflow is only exercised on release tags, so the relevant local validation is a Cargo publish dry run.

[geserdugarov]

This is how components are presented in the README now:

[blackmwk]

Thanks @geserdugarov for this pr. Though I think this is a good fix, maintaining such pacakges manually in publish.yml is the right direction to go. The reason is that it's quite easy to have wrong publishing order. We should use cargo publish --workspace to do it, and mark non publishing crates as false.